dear sister
by Matthew Nunez
Dear Sister,
I’ve been thinking about you, our brother, and the weight you carry each day in public education. There are moments when people on the outside can’t understand why some of us quietly long for the holidays to end—not because rest isn’t needed, but because school is often the safest place for so many children. Behind the backpacks and lesson plans are real lives, real fears, and real situations that require more than professional training.
As Christians serving in these spaces, we are often entrusted with more than academics. We are called to protect hearts and, at times, to help shield students from domestic family matters that bring harm, instability, or danger. Many children walk through the school doors carrying burdens they never should have had to bear. By God’s grace, school becomes a refuge—a place of order, care, and watchful eyes.
This is where I see the Lord qualifying His people in quiet but powerful ways. Beyond policies and protocols, He sharpens discernment. He gives wisdom to notice what others might miss, compassion to listen well, and courage to act appropriately when something isn’t right. These are not accidental abilities; they are gifts of the Spirit at work within believers who are submitted to Christ and committed to doing what is right for students.
We don’t operate in fear, nor do we overstep our roles. Instead, we walk prayerfully, responsibly, and attentively—trusting God to guide our steps as we collaborate with counselors, administrators, and systems designed to protect children. The Spirit helps us know when to speak, when to report, and when to quietly cover a student in prayer while ensuring they remain safe.
So when breaks come to an end, it’s not exhaustion we feel—it’s responsibility mixed with love. As we return, may we pause and ask ourselves: Holy Spirit, what are You showing me today that requires my attention, compassion, or obedience? Thank you for standing in the gap. The Lord sees your faithfulness, and He continues to qualify you for every good work He has placed in your hands.
With love and gratitude,
Matthew Nunez
